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Taking control.

Christmas is coming, and soon. I've been fretting over gifts already. I have family members that I just don't enjoy buying for. At all. But if I don't buy, then they get really upset. I think they are still mad that I suggested we don't buy birthday gifts for the adults. That was 10 years ago. It doesn't make sense. I'd rather receive a card than something I don't like. Not to be ungrateful, but I've received enough things that I just don't need. I'm more of a minimalist as I get older. I'm all for things that I"d use. A basket with kitchen things, exotic baking suppiles,towels, scrubbers, etc. What ever. A basket with bubble bath and candles. It doesn't take much, but i've enough knicknacks to last a lifetime.'

But these ones, want the best of the best. But I decided I'm theming this year. It's gift baskets. Period. For the family. I'm doing family gifts. Movies, theatre tickets, popcorn, pop and for thekids a special gift jar within, with a little something inside for them. One basket. Period. Now some people will really like it. Others will hate it and they'llhave to get over it. I will theme it to suit their tastes, it's not just "whatever" going in. I'll give it thought. But I really just don't have time to worry about "Is this the perfect gift". I've 4 kids, we're busy with them, I've my own business to run, that I can't do it, and then turn around 6mo later to be told they haven't used it yet. So, this year is my way :) And I'm looking forward to building the baskets.

Good for you.  That is the

Good for you.  That is the way it should be.  Make them whatever you want them to have.  I am right there with you this year.  We did homemade gifts a couple of years ago and I got crazy looks.  Like "What am I supposed to do with this, kind of look."  From that point on I said forget it, I don't spend to much time trying to decide what to get them.  If they don't tell me it is a gift card automatic.  I have 3 boys and I don't have time for it either.