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Birthdays in December
Submitted by Cassandra R. Cooper on Mon, 08/28/2006 - 14:10.
The most important thing to remember about birthday’s in December is what are the feelings and wishes of the Birthday Child/Person. As a Personality Coach I know that different personalities will react differently about this issue. So the best approach to take is to ask your child what they want to do about their Birthday. It is also wise to remember that very few of us have ever been asked year after year to let their birthday slide into another holiday.
Or when you tell someone that you have a Birthday in December people will usually respond with “wow what a terrible time to have a birthday.†Or as one family member told my daughter “no one should ever have a December Birthday, it shouldn’t be allowed!â€Â
Please remember to be sensitive to this issue, at lest until you know how the other person feels. Birthdays are all about the Birthday Person. It’s their special day. Remember they did not choose the day they were born.
Cassandra R. Cooper






December / January birthdays in my home
My husband's birthday is Dec. 27th, and mine is Jan. 17th, so, we deal with this situation quite a bit.
For my husband, I make certain that I give him the 'more important', 'more meaningful', or 'more expensive' gifts on his birthday.
That way, he feels that honoring his birth is not forgotten in the Christmas festivities.
As to my birthday, enough time has elapsed (about 3 weeks), that Christmas doesn't tend to infringe on it.
When I was growing up, though, my parents went all out for Christmas, and only a couple small gifts for my birthday....which was understandable from a financial aspect.
But as I said, I'm doing it differently for my husband.ÂÂ
Holiday birthdays